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Old 11-01-2010 at 08:30 PM   #106
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Ladies, if you're having issues with talking to men I have a solution.

I usually eat my food alone in my room between 7pm-8pm, im very handsome and as long as you're a smokeshow we can converse.

Interested?
Old 11-01-2010 at 09:00 PM   #107
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Ladies, if you're having issues with talking to men I have a solution.

I usually eat my food alone in my room between 7pm-8pm, im very handsome and as long as you're a smokeshow we can converse.

Interested?

You should be writing your essay, Rakim. Tsk tsk
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Old 11-01-2010 at 09:09 PM   #108
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You should be writing your essay, Rakim. Tsk tsk
Write it for me please?



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Old 11-01-2010 at 09:10 PM   #109
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I think I've just been lucky in that department then. I've known my boyfriend since we were young. We kind of had a Cory-Topanga relationship. I have had guy friends who liked me, but it didn't work out - and we still remained close friends.
I guess it all depends on how much one person likes to other, and how strong your friendship is.
I think it's AWESOME that we all know (okay not all, but at least SOME of us) know who Cory and Topanga are! Do you remember when TGIF had really good shows like that? I grew up watching that show... I have a bumper sticker on fb that says "Hannah Montanna? WTF how about Cory and Topanga?!" hahaha
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Okie question directed on the GUYS here: how do you feel about GIRLS asking you out? Would you totally be turned off by that, or would you find it an attractive, confidant quality? Would you feel like she's bruising your ego becasue society says boys have to be the one to do the asking? How should she ask you out? And do you think she should ask for your number or should she give you hers? Help?
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Okie question directed on the GUYS here: how do you feel about GIRLS asking you out? Would you totally be turned off by that, or would you find it an attractive, confidant quality? Would you feel like she's bruising your ego becasue society says boys have to be the one to do the asking? How should she ask you out? And do you think she should ask for your number or should she give you hers? Help?
It really depends on how the girl comes across while asking. If it sound rather desperate of course I'd be turned off, but if I could feel the sincerity in her wanting to get to know me on a more personal level than i see no reason to refuse her feelings.
Old 11-01-2010 at 09:18 PM   #112
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Okie question directed on the GUYS here: how do you feel about GIRLS asking you out? Would you totally be turned off by that, or would you find it an attractive, confidant quality? Would you feel like she's bruising your ego becasue society says boys have to be the one to do the asking? How should she ask you out? And do you think she should ask for your number or should she give you hers? Help?
Theres nothing more attractive than a girl with confidence.

And one who can help me finish this essay : (

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Old 11-01-2010 at 09:43 PM   #113
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I think I wouldn't mind if a girl I was interested in approached me with a subtle hint of "hey I know it's tough for you guys having to do all the work but hey I like you so let me help". No ego blow there. Would not really like it if a girl was with the attitude "see it's not that hard, even i did it lol".

As long as she doesn't make a big deal out of it during and after, it's cool.

I like it when a girl offers her number (shows high interest) and it's cool if she asks for mine also (especially with the intention of calling to set up a get together).

But if you give your number then reject an offer for a date without counter-offering in some way for another time, that shows you're not interested which makes me think why go through it in the first place?

As for how she should ask out, I guess this kind of goes for guys and girls but just take the pressure off the date somehow. Whether it be something simple like coffee or going for a walk.

Not a big fan of the dinner date for a first date since it puts a lot of pressure and isn't that great if it turns out you don't like eachother that much after getting to know eachother. Second date makes more sense.

Also I'm probably just rambling now but don't dress up too much for the date. I remember this one girl did these crazy design patterns and rhinestones on her nails and then joked about doing it to impress me. Unless it's the everyday you, just present yourself well, not trying-out-for-american-idol well.

P.S. Group dates are probably not as good. Might be a distraction in trying to get to know each other.

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Curious as to what people's expectations are going into a date and meeting a new love interest? Friends, marriage, casual lovers, exclusive lovers, soul mates, business partners, etc.

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Theres nothing more attractive than a girl with confidence.

And one who can help me finish this essay : (



In all seriousness, if I had any way of contacting you, i would.
But we're not even in the same year, let alone the same program, so I'm not sure how much help I would be.
Sigh.
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In all seriousness, if I had any way of contacting you, i would.
But we're not even in the same year, let alone the same program, so I'm not sure how much help I would be.
Sigh.
NO, write MY essay
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And one who can help me finish this essay : (
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NO, write MY essay


Yo, I'll proof read that shit like its no one's business, but there is no way I'm writing it when I have two of my own
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Old 11-01-2010 at 10:31 PM   #117
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Yo, I'll proof read that shit like its no one's business, but there is no way I'm writing it when I have two of my own
Ill make it worth your while
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Very nice looking attached male seeking a very nice normal good looking female in same boat. I am looking for no strings harmless fun. I am not looking to change my life nor yours. If you are seeking that tiny bit more now and then and your normal and serious then lets chat. Hope To hear from someone great.....Dan
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