Okay this wasn't my most awkward date, but this was the most awkward situation in which I was asked out:

So one morning I was at a hotel with my Mom. I was ready to go but she wasn't so I was sitting in the lobby waiting for her. This guy (I'm not gonna lie, he was hot) sat down on the opposite couch and we started making small talk. Soooo eventually we asked each other why we were in a hotel (where are you from etc). So he tells me he's there waiting for "one of his girls." I automatically assume that he was playing around, like seeing more than one girl. THEN he goes on to say that he's an escort. I thought he was kidding. THEN he told me that he comes here becasue he makes more money here than he does where he's from. I was like, OMG. Then he asked me out for coffee, but I already had one so he asked me to lunch. I said no but thanks. Then he asked for my number, and I didn't want to give it to him so he decided to give me his. Then he added me on facebook and started calling me "his girl" and that I should "come home to him." BTW, I saw his pics on facebook. I'm pretty sure the guy was actually an escort...

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

Okay this wasn't my most awkward date, but this was the most awkward situation in which I was asked out:

So one morning I was at a hotel with my Mom. I was ready to go but she wasn't so I was sitting in the lobby waiting for her. This guy (I'm not gonna lie, he was hot) sat down on the opposite couch and we started making small talk. Soooo eventually we asked each other why we were in a hotel (where are you from etc). So he tells me he's there waiting for "one of his girls." I automatically assume that he was playing around, like seeing more than one girl. THEN he goes on to say that he's an escort. I thought he was kidding. THEN he told me that he comes here becasue he makes more money here than he does where he's from. I was like, OMG. Then he asked me out for coffee, but I already had one so he asked me to lunch. I said no but thanks. Then he asked for my number, and I didn't want to give it to him so he decided to give me his. Then he added me on facebook and started calling me "his girl" and that I should "come home to him." BTW, I saw his pics on facebook. I'm pretty sure the guy was actually an escort...

such a good idea.. why am i in school..

Originally Posted by bloodywarz

worst date on my part was:

just started dating a girl, asked her friends where she always wanted to go on a date to surprise her.... for some odd ass reasons her friends decided to stalk us there, follow us around and i felt really awkward with them there and told her but somehow my girlfriend took the fact that i was awkward and thought i hated her and threw a tantrum and actually started to cry....i was totally shocked tried calming her down, her friends ran in and called me a horrible boyfriend and told me to leave.... and people were just staring at me in the mall... then the next day she calls me up and says "oh sorry it was the time of my month...would you like to go for dinner tomorrow?" i kinda just hung up.. worst DATE EVER oh my god was so awkward walking out of that mall

How old was she when this date happened?

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

I love that girls always have that excuse. We can say it even if it's not true. In that situation, she probably shouldn't have used it... well, yeah she could have (she obv. did), but good thing you didn't buy it. But sometimes, that's actually a legit excuse.

I hate this as an excuse. I don't think being on your period is ever an excuse for humiliating someone like that. EVER. I think the fact that women do use it as an excuse for horrible behaviour only hurts women and makes it harder to take women seriously, especially when they are genuinely upset about something.

If being on your period makes you behave like a *****, then do us all a favour and don't go out when you're on your period. (This isn't directed to anyone in particular, just in general).

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

If a guy asks a girl out, he should pay. First date thing, maybe the first 2 or 3 dates, but definitely the first. The other way around, I guess the girl could pay, but I dunno, that still feels weird. In that case I think they should pay for themselves.

Maybe they both should always pay on the first date in order to make it completely fair, regardless of who asks who out?

Originally Posted by AlienSummer

How old was she when this date happened?



I hate this as an excuse. I don't think being on your period is ever an excuse for humiliating someone like that. EVER. I think the fact that women do use it as an excuse for horrible behaviour only hurts women and makes it harder to take women seriously, especially when they are genuinely upset about something.

If being on your period makes you behave like a *****, then do us all a favour and don't go out when you're on your period. (This isn't directed to anyone in particular, just in general).



Maybe they both should always pay on the first date in order to make it completely fair, regardless of who asks who out?

we were both in grade 12 she was only like 4 months older than me.
and totally agree with you, if girls on their periods and they transform into a total psycho oversensitive multi-personality cows...they should just stay at home.

Originally Posted by Phil

such a good idea.. why am i in school..

haha Well... your body isn't going to be perfect forever so once you get past the age of 30/35, you're out of a job. But the guy was pretty physically stacked.

Originally Posted by AlienSummer

How old was she when this date happened?



I hate this as an excuse. I don't think being on your period is ever an excuse for humiliating someone like that. EVER. I think the fact that women do use it as an excuse for horrible behaviour only hurts women and makes it harder to take women seriously, especially when they are genuinely upset about something.

If being on your period makes you behave like a *****, then do us all a favour and don't go out when you're on your period. (This isn't directed to anyone in particular, just in general).

So, you're saying that girls shouldn't go out for a week every month? I don't think living like a hermit is a vaild choice. PMS is called Pissed at Men Syndrome for a reason.

Originally Posted by AlienSummer

How old was she when this date happened?



I hate this as an excuse. I don't think being on your period is ever an excuse for humiliating someone like that. EVER. I think the fact that women do use it as an excuse for horrible behaviour only hurts women and makes it harder to take women seriously, especially when they are genuinely upset about something.

If being on your period makes you behave like a *****, then do us all a favour and don't go out when you're on your period. (This isn't directed to anyone in particular, just in general).



Maybe they both should always pay on the first date in order to make it completely fair, regardless of who asks who out?

Was gonna say that earlier but didn't feel like typing it out. I agree completely.

I get so ****ing rattled when guys say "lol you must be pmsing" if I'm pissed/annoyed. I normally just reply with, "No, I'm not, but if I were, you try bleeding from your ***** and feeling like someone smoked you in the ribs with a baseball bat and tell me how you like it."

And honestly, I can't say I've ever become a ****ing psychotic, emotional wench when on my rag so there's no reason for you to either.

Eat some damn chocolate, curl up in the fetal position, and wait it out. Stop giving the rest of us a bad name and a reason for guys to be even bigger douches.

Originally Posted by lawleypop

So you're saying you're not looking for
ANYTHING more when you ask somebody out.
Hate to break it to you, but hookers will just hang out with you too.
It's not like they need **** every minute of the day, they just want money.
It's not like hooker = coked out whore. There are plenty of hookers
who are good company and good times!

I'm not saying that I am not looking for anything more.
It's that I am not EXPECTING for anything more.
If something happens, it happens spontaneously.
On a date, I pay for the company and my chance at
finding a mate.

With a hooker, you EXPECT and PAY FOR a happy ending.

Originally Posted by bloodywarz

worst date on my part was:

just started dating a girl, asked her friends where she always wanted to go on a date to surprise her.... for some odd ass reasons her friends decided to stalk us there, follow us around and i felt really awkward with them there and told her but somehow my girlfriend took the fact that i was awkward and thought i hated her and threw a tantrum and actually started to cry....i was totally shocked tried calming her down, her friends ran in and called me a horrible boyfriend and told me to leave.... and people were just staring at me in the mall... then the next day she calls me up and says "oh sorry it was the time of my month...would you like to go for dinner tomorrow?" i kinda just hung up.. worst DATE EVER oh my god was so awkward walking out of that mall

wait...wait...so THAT's why girls cry so much? Because it's their time of the month? Wish i'd knew this before lol.
I just hate people crying without any good reason

I wanna try "the naked man" (as seen on how i met your mother)

Originally Posted by Afzal

wait...wait...so THAT's why girls cry so much? Because it's their time of the month? Wish i'd knew this before lol.
I just hate people crying without any good reason

This is actually true. I get weepy during that "time of the month." It sucks.

Originally Posted by bloodywarz

worst date on my part was:

just started dating a girl, asked her friends where she always wanted to go on a date to surprise her.... for some odd ass reasons her friends decided to stalk us there, follow us around and i felt really awkward with them there and told her but somehow my girlfriend took the fact that i was awkward and thought i hated her and threw a tantrum and actually started to cry....i was totally shocked tried calming her down, her friends ran in and called me a horrible boyfriend and told me to leave.... and people were just staring at me in the mall... then the next day she calls me up and says "oh sorry it was the time of my month...would you like to go for dinner tomorrow?" i kinda just hung up.. worst DATE EVER oh my god was so awkward walking out of that mall

I'm just wondering why you would go to the mall for a date. ??

Wow, are you serious?

Sorry, I can't help but judge you right now. (At least I'm honest?)

Honestly should have been born a dude. ._. Curse you non-existent deity I don't believe in.

Originally Posted by lizziepizzie

So, you're saying that girls shouldn't go out for a week every month? I don't think living like a hermit is a vaild choice. PMS is called Pissed at Men Syndrome for a reason.

Females who cannot control themselves during their period should definitely not leave their house for a week every month in order to save the rest of us the humiliation of being associated with them.

It's not that hard to not be an awful person while you're on your period. It's called self control, dignity, and respect for those who have to deal with you. If you're having a tough day, go home and cry about it in your pillow. But when you're out in public, act like a human being and treat others how you would want to be treated. Seriously. Being a female doesn't give you a pass to be rude to others.

Originally Posted by lawleypop

Was gonna say that earlier but didn't feel like typing it out. I agree completely.

I get so ****ing rattled when guys say "lol you must be pmsing" if I'm pissed/annoyed. I normally just reply with, "No, I'm not, but if I were, you try bleeding from your ***** and feeling like someone smoked you in the ribs with a baseball bat and tell me how you like it."

And honestly, I can't say I've ever become a ****ing psychotic, emotional wench when on my rag so there's no reason for you to either.

Eat some damn chocolate, curl up in the fetal position, and wait it out. Stop giving the rest of us a bad name and a reason for guys to be even bigger douches.

I definitely second this. I can't take somebody serious who uses their period or PMS as an excuse to act like a psychotic *****. I pretty much lose all respect for them. Just own up to behaving poorly and move on with it. Don't blame being female for your behaviour.

Originally Posted by AlienSummer

Females who cannot control themselves during their period should definitely not leave their house for a week every month in order to save the rest of us the humiliation of being associated with them.

It's not that hard to not be an awful person while you're on your period. It's called self control, dignity, and respect for those who have to deal with you. If you're having a tough day, go home and cry about it in your pillow. But when you're out in public, act like a human being and treat others how you would want to be treated. Seriously. Being a female doesn't give you a pass to be rude to others.



I definitely second this. I can't take somebody serious who uses their period or PMS as an excuse to act like a psychotic *****. I pretty much lose all respect for them. Just own up to behaving poorly and move on with it. Don't blame being female for your behaviour.

Could you like, say this to my ex-girlfriend? Because she really needs to hear that.

Originally Posted by lawleypop

And honestly, I can't say I've ever become a ****ing psychotic, emotional wench when on my rag so there's no reason for you to either.

Eat some damn chocolate, curl up in the fetal position, and wait it out. Stop giving the rest of us a bad name and a reason for guys to be even bigger douches.

Agreed x100000.

Sure, the hormones might affect your mood, just as how nobody would be in the best mood if they're sleep deprived and hacing a bad day, but it doesn't change fundamentally who you are.

Sorry to break it to you girls who think PMS is an excuse to act like a child... but if you're psychotic during your period, you are just psychotic in general.